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đźš©Red Flag Radar

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​A fast, parent-friendly checklist to help you spot IEP red flags before confusion turns into conflict.

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    I’m Melissa Gagne, a special education attorney and mom who has sat on both sides of the IEP table.
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    This checklist is designed to help you spot those moments in real time, so you can ask better questions, slow things down, and protect your child’s supports before problems escalate.

    Melissa Gagne

    CT Special Education Lawyer

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    What will I learn?

    By using the IEP SLAY™ Red Flag Radar, you’ll learn how to:
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    âś” Recognize common phrases that sound reasonable but often signal missing data or pre-made decisions
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    âś” Spot process breakdowns that leave parents confused or sidelined
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    âś” Identify emotional red flags that can quietly undermine collaboration
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    âś” Know when to pause, ask clarifying questions, or request follow-up
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    âś” Trust your instincts without feeling confrontational or unprepared

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    This isn’t about catching anyone doing something wrong. It’s about staying informed and involved before problems escalate.